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Boudoir photography has become increasingly popular in recent years as a way for women to capture their beauty, sensuality, and confidence in intimate and elegant photos. However, many couples have discovered that boudoir photography can also add a new level of excitement and intimacy to their relat...

Foot podophilia, or foot fetishism, involves having an enhanced sexual interest in the feet of the human body.  For those who don’t have this fetish they might be surprised to learn that a study on the relative prevalence of different fetishes found feet to be the most fetishized part of the body.

Hollywood has a way of sexualizing fight scenes between a man and a woman, emphasizing the woman’s curves as she smoothly defeats her larger and dumber male opponent in easy fashion.  However, sometimes there is nothing sexual about the battle as it is just two people fighting to the bitter death, w...

Allowing your lover to restrict your airflow causes one to hand over a tremendous amount of power to someone else.  It is vitally important to trust your partner who you decide to engage with in breath play.

Giving up that power is what makes breath play so exciting, engaging, and a huge turn on fo...

For couples who wish to engage in BDSM play involving a sex fight or high level of impact play, role-playing the fight scene from the movie Enough (2002) starring Jennifer Lopez can be a fun and exciting way.  The scene involves a woman embarrassing and humiliating a man through pure physical domina...

In order for a woman to take on a femdom role over her man she must take complete control of power over him, especially as it pertains to the bedroom.  She claims authority and dominance over a submissive man who is wanting that power to be taken from him. 

While some couples choose to share a life...

The term femme fatale strikes up different images and ideas for different people.  Commonalities of seductive, dangerous, and beautiful women seem to be shared by most when someone mentions the word femme fatale.  While some men might envision a slender dominatrix wearing tight leather and latex clo...

Many men find a shapely pair of feminine legs to be the most attractive part of a woman’s body. Exactly why legs drive some men crazy isn’t fully understood, but for some men it encompasses the combination of seductiveness beauty with deadly power. Being trapped between a strong pair of feminine thi...

CNC stands for a consensual non-consent and is a BDSM kink involving a dominant and submissive.  In CNC role-play, the submissive wants their limits of consent to be pushed and challenged.  They want their dominant to take complete control over them against their will, as they are left helpless in t...

DDLG is a type of BDSM play that involves a clear dominant role and submissive role within a couple.  The phrase DDLG stands for “Daddy Dom, Little Girl”, encompassing a caregiver who usually takes on a dominant role, and an immature childish persona who usually takes on the submissive role in need ...

Hand cuffs in the bedroom have become the international symbol of kinky sex.  If a new television series wants to show that one of the characters is very sexual, or even into BDSM, all they have to do is show another character finding a pair of furry sex cuffs in the sexually promiscuous character’s...

Sex role-play service companies provide ideas, story-lines, and communication for couples looking to add excitement to their bedroom routine.  They can help lovers learn things about each other that they may not have been previously aware, and through that information reach new levels or pleasure th...

Impact play is a form of BDSM that involves hitting your partner, or being hit by your partner, as a way of seductive foreplay.  Usually partners will partake in impact play because one or both of them are turned on by sadism or masochism.  Sadism is the tendency to derive sexual pleasure from infli...

The Venus thigh trap is an urban slang for a technique involving a woman surprising a man with whom she has having intimate relations, by trapping him with her thighs.  She lures him in close with her beauty and seductiveness, and once he is on top of her ready for a sexual encounter, she wraps her ...

Erotic asphyxiation involves intentionally restricting oxygen and blood flow to the brain in order to enhance your level of sexual arousal.  By restricting oxygen and blood flow levels going to the brain, someone who is being asphyxiated can achieve a feeling of being high, or light headed, causing ...

Every relationship will have its ups and downs, and those downs will undoubtedly be filled with some form of arguing and bickering about things of little importance in the grand scheme of things.  How, as a couple, you rebound from those arguments will determine the success or failure of your longev...

Some view the 90s as the golden era of films, and one of those classic movies is 1992’s Basic Instinct starring Michael Douglas and Sharon Stone as Catherine Tramell, in the role that made her a household name.  Catherine Tramell is a seductive and manipulative woman who is the main suspect of the m...

As is the case with most KinkSport games, this competition requires a combination of physical strength and seductive prowess.  The positioning and vulnerability that the two lovers will put themselves in with the Reverse Headscissor 69 Challenge exemplifies the KinkSport definition as much as any ot...

Wrestling is likely the oldest sport invented by humans.  While the sport as seen in college and the Olympics has evolved to include exact scoring metrics and completion upon a one second pin, its roots are derived more from a dominant and submission aspect.  Unorganized wrestling is all about getti...

Sometimes the best form of foreplay is to bring a little competitive spirt into the bedroom and work up a sweat.  After all, it is no secret that working out causes your body to release endorphins, which in turn reduces stress and improves your sense of well-being.  Participating in some exercise ac...