6 Shibari Bondage Games to Play in the Bedroom

The “B” in BDSM stands for bondage, and this can come in many different varieties.  However, it almost always involves one individual being restrained in some way by another person.  The restrained person is at the mercy of the dominant person who can now do as they please.

One type of bondage is Shibari, also known as Japanese rope bondage.  Shibari is an intimate and erotic form of BDSM play.  It involves tying up a partner using ropes, with the goal of creating visually appealing patterns while providing a sense of physical and psychological restriction.

Power Exchange

There are a variety of games and fun activities that a couple and partake in the bedroom as it relates to Shibari bondage.  Shibari bondage involves the act of giving up control or surrendering oneself to a dominant partner.  This power exchange can be an intense and erotic experience for both partners.  The person being tied up is relinquishing their agency to their partner, and this loss of control can be liberating and exhilarating.  The dominant partner takes on the responsibility of caring for and protecting their submissive partner, creating a sense of trust and intimacy.

Physical Sensations

In addition to the power dynamics, Shibari bondage also involves physical sensations that can be sexually stimulating.  The rope is tightly wrapped around the body, creating pressure on the skin and restricting movement.  This pressure can stimulate the nerves in the skin and increase sensitivity, making even the slightest touch feel more intense.  The sensation of being bound can also create a feeling of being held or hugged, which can be comforting and intimate.

Anticipation and Suspense Sexual Tension

Shibari bondage also involves the element of anticipation and suspense.  The process of tying someone up can be slow and deliberate, building anticipation and sexual tension.  The person being tied up is unable to move or escape, heightening their awareness of their body and the sensations they are experiencing. The dominant partner can then use this heightened state of awareness to tease and pleasure their submissive partner.

Sexual Vulnerability

Furthermore, shibari bondage can also create a sense of vulnerability and exposure. The person being tied up is completely exposed to their partner, both physically and emotionally. This vulnerability can create a deep sense of trust and intimacy, as the dominant partner is responsible for caring for and protecting their submissive partner.

Sexuality Exploration

Finally, Shibari bondage is a form of role play, allowing individuals to explore different aspects of their sexuality and personality. The submissive partner may take on a different persona or character, allowing them to explore different parts of themselves in a safe and consensual manner. The dominant partner may also explore different aspects of their personality, taking on a more nurturing and protective role.

For couples interested in shibari, there are several games that can be played to enhance their experience. Here are a few suggestions:

 Shibari Bondage Games

1. The Escape Game

   

   In this game, the dominant partner ties up the submissive partner, who then attempts to escape the ropes. The submissive partner can use their hands, feet, or mouth to undo the knots. The submissive partner is forced to squirm and wiggle out of their predicament, while the dominant can watch in pleasure.

2. See No Evil

   This game involves the dominant partner tying up the submissive partner in a way that restricts their movement and limits their visual perception by covering the submissive partner's eyes. Now that the submissive is unable to see, the dominant partner can take a sharp object and slowly glide it over the sub’s body. The submissive has to guess what object the dominant is using.  The longer it takes for them to guess, the more time the dominant has to slowly maneuver the object to more sensitive areas of the body such as the neck or sexual regions of the body,

3. Tie and Tease

   In “Tie and Tease” one partner is tied up and the other partner teases them with various sensations, such as light touches, ticking, or sensual massages. The dominant will attempt to get the submissive to submit through non-violent impact such as tickling.  This can be a great way to build anticipation and excitement, and can also help to establish a power dynamic between partners.

    

4. Stuck on You 69

   This game in not so much a BDSM game with dominant and submissive roles, but rather a teamwork game. You and your partner will tie your bodies together, while lying in the 69 position.  Once tied up, you can both put on blindfolds and now try to work together to escape the ropes.  This will work even better if you can find a third partner to do the tying up, but it can work with just the two of you as well.  The fun comes from maneuvering your bodies together in order to escape the trap.

5.  Bondage Wrestling

    

   As part of our couple's wrestling games and challenges role-play setup, in this bout the two of you will wrestle each other for control, except instead of trying to pin your opponent the object of the game is to tie them up. There are two wrestlers and one rope.  Whoever is able to restrain the other by tying their legs and hands together is the winner, who can then do as they please to the losing submissive.

6. Naughty Schoolgirl or Schoolboy

     A more lighthearted game that involves bondage and discipline is “Naughty School Girl or Boy.”  In this game, one partner takes on the role of the teacher and the other partner takes on the role of the student.  The teacher may punish the student for misbehavior by tying them to their desk and chair through bondage, forcing them to sit still why they torturing them with a paddle for misbehaving.  Alternatively, they can use a feather flogger and torture them by tickling them with the feathers in sensitive spots.

It's important to remember that Shibari is a form of BDSM play and should always be done  consensually, with clear boundaries and communication, even if it is a form of consensual non-consent. Before playing any of these games, it's important for couples to discuss their limits and establish a safe word that either partner can use to indicate that they want to stop the play. In conclusion, shibari can be a fun and intimate way for couples to explore their BDSM interests. These games provide a way to add some excitement to the experience while testing the trust and communication skills of the participants. As with any BDSM play, it's important to prioritize safety and communication, and to always respect each other's boundaries.