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Dominant or Submissive? Discovering Your True BDSM Identity Aug 05, 2023

Welcome to the enchanting world of BDSM, where power dynamics and desire intertwine in a dance of passion and exploration. In this article, we'll embark on a comprehensive journey of self-discovery to uncover your true BDSM identity. Like exploring a treasure map, we'll navigate the exhilarating...

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The Psychology of Power: Understanding the Mind of BDSM Jul 13, 2023

Imagine a fascinating world where power, desire, and trust intertwine. Welcome to the realm of BDSM, an acronym that encompasses a diverse range of erotic practices. In this article, we'll delve into the psychology behind BDSM and unravel the motivations and experiences of both dominants and...

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How to Fight Relationship Boredom Apr 10, 2023

Finding a person to share your life with is a beautiful accomplishment.  Sure, there are times when you just want to be alone and wish you were single.  Ultimately, having that special someone to share unique moments throughout the year is worth giving up a little bit of your complete...

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15 Bedroom Role Play Scenes for an Alpha Man and a Submissive Female Mar 30, 2023

Role playing in the bedroom is like trick-or-treating on Halloween for adults.  It allows people to escape themselves and enter a different persona for a short period of time.  When their partner is simultaneously doing this with a unique character of their own, sexual sparks can fly as...

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9 Sizzling Foot Fetish Foreplay Techniques Jan 26, 2023

Foot podophilia, or foot fetishism, involves having an enhanced sexual interest in the feet of the human body.  For those who don’t have this fetish they might be surprised to learn that a study on the relative prevalence of different fetishes found feet to be the most fetishized part...

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Role-Playing a Sex Fight Scene from the Movie Enough Dec 29, 2022

For couples who wish to engage in BDSM play involving a sex fight or high level of impact play, role-playing the fight scene from the movie Enough (2002) starring Jennifer Lopez can be a fun and exciting way.  The scene involves a woman embarrassing and humiliating a man through pure...

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6 BDSM Role-Play Scenes for a Femdom and Submissive Man Dec 21, 2022

In order for a woman to take on a femdom role over her man she must take complete control of power over him, especially as it pertains to the bedroom.  She claims authority and dominance over a submissive man who is wanting that power to be taken from him. 

While some couples choose to...

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4 Scissor Scenes from Movies to Role-play in the Bedroom Nov 14, 2022

Many men find a shapely pair of feminine legs to be the most attractive part of a woman’s body. Exactly why legs drive some men crazy isn’t fully understood, but for some men it encompasses the combination of seductiveness beauty with deadly power. Being trapped between a strong pair...

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DDLG Role-Play Ideas Nov 09, 2022

DDLG is a type of BDSM play that involves a clear dominant role and submissive role within a couple.  The phrase DDLG stands for “Daddy Dom, Little Girl”, encompassing a caregiver who usually takes on a dominant role, and an immature childish persona who usually takes on the...

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Sex Positions to Play with Erotic Asphyxiation Oct 18, 2022

Erotic asphyxiation involves intentionally restricting oxygen and blood flow to the brain in order to enhance your level of sexual arousal.  By restricting oxygen and blood flow levels going to the brain, someone who is being asphyxiated can achieve a feeling of being high, or light headed,...

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Basic Instinct Movie Role-Play Sex Oct 11, 2022

Some view the 90s as the golden era of films, and one of those classic movies is 1992’s Basic Instinct starring Michael Douglas and Sharon Stone as Catherine Tramell, in the role that made her a household name.  Catherine Tramell is a seductive and manipulative woman who is the main...

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Erotic Sexual Wrestling with Your Partner Oct 01, 2022

Wrestling is likely the oldest sport invented by humans.  While the sport as seen in college and the Olympics has evolved to include exact scoring metrics and completion upon a one second pin, its roots are derived more from a dominant and submission aspect.  Unorganized wrestling is...

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KinkSports Ultra-Competitive Sep 12, 2022

The highest and most extreme level of intensity in KinkSports is Kink Ultra-Competitive.  This level won’t be for all - or even most – couples.  Some might decide to take it to the Ultra-Competitive intensity level on occasion when a major dispute between lovers needs to be...

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Kink Sports Semi-Competitive Sep 06, 2022

The intermediate level of intensity for participating in a KinkSport is Kink Semi-Competitive.  In this level you and your partner can play with each other's physical strengths without the physical superior one completely destroying the weaker, at least no at first. 

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